Friday, March 21, 2014

Lists, Experience, Wisdom

Everyone's into lists these days.  The top 10 things not to do before you eat.  The top 103 things to do when you raise kids.  The worst 5 things to say.

I like to read them.  They are quick and easy.  I like checklists.  I can scan them really fast.

So I was thinking the other day about what my lists would be.

I guess to make a list you need to feel like somewhat of an expert.  I don't really feel like an expert in anything.  But I have had experience.

I was getting my hair cut the other day when the girl started telling me about how she was moving in with her boyfriend.  I asked her if she was going to get married.  She wanted to but wasn't sure when.  She wanted to go to college first. I answered "You can go to college when you are married". She didn't think she had enough money.  I answered " It's more about the marriage than the ceremony anyway."  She thought she was too young.  I told her how I'd gotten married at 18 and this year will be my 25th wedding anniversary!  I told her it hasn't been easy but anything worth keeping was worth working on. Commitment is key.

Then I was getting my eyebrows waxed and the lady there was telling me how she was so nervous because they were supposed to hear from their Realtor because they had just put a bid on a house! She was so worried.  But I told her not to worry.  There will be plenty of houses.  You can make a home anywhere.  It's more important to make a home than worry about what kind of house you will get.  I told her how we've moved 14 times in the last 25 years and just recently moved back into an apartment!  She couldn't believe it!

I hope to bring words of encouragement to people. I'm not an expert.  But I've had experience and life and the Lord have taught me many lessons.

So I guess one of my lists could be Lessons Learned:

  • Take time to play with your kids.  They will soon leave and your phone and housecleaning will still be there.  They won't be.
  • Don't let certain boxes you've made for yourself hold you back from things.  Get out of that box and try something new!  Travel!  Hula Hoop!  Try new foods!
  • Most things in life don't matter.  A few do.  Those are the things to focus on.
  • Don't try to make other people fit in your box.  They like their boxes too.  
  • Laugh more! Be silly!
  • Don't ever think "I can't do that because what would people think" ...Who cares! Life's too short to worry what others think.  They will probably think "Why didn't I do that!"
  • The marriage is WAY more important than the 10 min ceremony. Invest in the marriage.
  • Spend your money wisely. But have fun too.  Spend it on fun things that you enjoy!
Well I'm sure there are many more.  I'm still learning a lot.

What are some things you have learned?  Words of Wisdom?  What would your list be?


Friday, March 7, 2014

Thankful

I know it isn't Thanksgiving yet...(didn't we just celebrate that?)  But I'm feeling thankful today.  I am thankful for:

  • new opportunities
  • grown children
  • spending more time with my honey
  • the sun shining
  • spring around the corner
  • Saturdays off!
  • vacations in the works
  • bonuses
  • friends and dominoes
  • meeting new people
  • technology
  • quiet
  • being able to see the Lord moving
What are you thankful for today?

Tuesday, October 29, 2013

Moscow!

Val & Larry go to Moscow 2013

Sunday October 20, 2013-  Headed out on our journey!  First stop was DC  to visit two life long friends.  We had a great time with the Brinsons and the Huxfords!  They've been our friends for 25+ years!  Its great to keep these friendships cultivated!  Even if you only get to see each other once a year!

Monday October 21, 2013- Rode the Megabus from DC to NY!  I absolutely love the megabus. It's a cheap way to travel but it's a nice bus! We both rode for $20!  Made it to NY around 10:30 and took a taxi to our hotel.  We bought our hotel on Priceline.  We decided to stay in Brooklyn because it was cheaper.  Our hotel room was so tiny!!  It was about the size of our bed! (plus a bathroom!--



the bathroom was as big as the room!)  It was so funny walking in because I had my backpack on with hula hoop.  Larry was carrying our suitcases and we both got stuck in the entry way!

Tuesday October 22, 2013-Had a great time in NY... went to central park, times square, saw a broadway show...Then walked around Brooklyn and saw Brooklyn library and park.

Wednesday October 23, 2013- Started our journey to Moscow!  took the subway to a bus to the airport. Then a 10 hour flight to Moscow!  Thankfully it was at night so we did sleep some.  Although it's really hard to sleep sitting up with people on either side of you!

Thursday October 24, 2013- Landed in Moscow around 12:30 in the afternoon.  The airport is north of the city and our hotel was south of the city.  I had looked up info about the hotel before we left and knew what metro stop it was near.  We decided to try and figure out the metro instead of take a taxi because taxis can be very expensive and Moscow traffic is very congested.  So we took a train from the airport to the metro station.  When we got off the train it was very confusing! Of course everything is in Russian!  The Cyrillic language is so complicated!  We finally figured out we had to walk from the train station to the metro.  Then we had to figure out how to get a ticket. Then we had to figure out which metro line to get on and get on going in the right direction!  We definitely looked like tourists with our book out.  I was getting really frustrated with reading the signs too!  Then Larry took over and he didn't need to make sense of the words.  He just looked for "AO6 backwards L" and  then we could know which metro to get on!  Whew!  Well we finally made it to our metro by our hotel.  Walked up to the street... hmmm.... I had no idea how to get to the hotel from the metro!  Well, the Lord blessed because we looked up and Larry said "Maybe that's it"  I had seen a picture of the hotel online and Yes it was! Hallelujah!  We went to our hotel room and crashed. Completely exhausted!  Slept till about 10pm then woke up!  Went back to sleep around 2 or 3am and slept till 7am!  It was still dark outside!


Friday October 25, 2013-  We took a tour with a guide and 2 other people (who were from Virginia! and Christians!  a Pastor even!)  We went to the Kremlin.  Kremlin means "fortress". It is a collection of buildings and churches.  The drive into the city was almost 2 hours! Our guide explained a lot of Russian history to us.  It was very interesting. The weather was a bit chilly but not bad at all.  I was completely surprised at the weather!  It was always really really hot indoors and then cool outside.  We wore coats and gloves but was never freezing cold.

Got lots of great pictures.  The guide took us up to Sparrow hill which is the highest point in Moscow and we could see the city from there.  Then instead of them taking us all the way back to the hotel we had them drop us off at a Metro.  We had some great lunch and then headed to see Red square! Completely awed by the architecture and beauty of St. Basil's Cathedral.  It seemed completely surreal that we were actually standing there.  The mood in the square was solemn.  Lots of people.  Felt completely safe.  No worries at all.  Also in the square is a History museum, a church, and GUM department store.  The most amazing department store!  It was so huge!  And extremely nice!  Lots of high end shops and really really pretty!

We walked around the Department Store a while to get out of the cold.  We wanted to go to a ballet but had heard the tickets were sold out months in advance.  We were trying to get across the street to Bolshoi Theater.  It's the famous theater for ballets.  The street is about 8 lanes across and there's no way to cross!  Finally we figured out that there are crosswalks UNDER the road!  So we walked under and up to the theater.  Walked right up there and a guy was selling tickets to the ballet that started in about 5 minutes!  We talked him down a bit and then went to the ballet!!  It was so beautiful!  To see the dancers and their athleticism was absolutely stunning.  The theater itself was beautiful too!  We sat high up but had a great view of the ballet.

Then we headed back to the hotel.  As we were trying to figure out the metro again and not having a lot of luck...a couple saw us with our book in hand and said "Where are you going?"  We told him and he said "Follow us we are going the same way"  So off we went!  We got on the metro with them and started talking to them.  It's completely amazing to me how God can orchestrate events and people to come together!  The couple looks at us and said "Are you born again believers?"  Yes!!  "Can we pray right now?"  Yes!!!  So we held hands and bowed right there on the metro in Moscow and prayed with fellow believers. It was very moving.  I was so thankful to see God working in a city I never thought much about before.




Saturday October 26, 2013- We slept till 9am!  Took my hula hoop today and got a lot of really strange looks wherever we went.  It was tied in a scarf on my backpack.  We went to the State Historical museum.  It was in Red Square and was a huge museum that started with pre-historic times!  Lots of interesting exhibits and lots of history.  There were some papers with things in English so we could understand what was going on.  Not everything was in English.  I was so tired though.  Lots of standing and walking.  I fell going down some stairs and slid down a few steps!  Whoops!

Then we went to Red Square and I hula hooped there!  We took a few pictures and then a plain clothes police officer came over and said "no".  So we packed up and left!  That was the only time I felt a little nervous there in Moscow!

Then we went over to a place that sells lots of tea.  It was an interesting little shop but couldn't figure out what to buy!

We wanted to see more recent Russian History.  So we found the Museum of Modern History.  Really interesting to see the perspective of the Russians from 1900 to present day!





Sunday October 27, 2013-Took an excursion with a guide to a Monastery outside town.  It was weird to see so many people there praying to these "icons" on the frescoes on the walls.  They also stood in long lines to have the priest pray for them.  They also stood in long lines to touch relics. I'm so thankful we can go directly to God through Jesus Christ! Russian Orthodox is a  very traditional and ritualistic religion.  Doesn't seems like a relationship at all. At one point our guide was telling us how they pray to the "icons". She said, "It is mostly like you Americans do. " Larry piped in rather loudly and said "NO- JESUS CHRIST IS KING OF KINGS AND LORD OF LORDS!" She just looked up and did the sign of the cross and said "Yes, Jesus Christ is King of King and Lord of Lords."

Then we had lunch in town.  Borscht! and a meat pie baked in a crock with bread on top. And Pancakes with a sweet sauce for dessert!  Yummy!!  So delicious!

Headed back to town and had the driver drop us off at a metro in town.  He dropped us off right at the Russian Space Museum!  So we went in and saw that!  So neat!  Not much in English but it was a great museum!

Then we went to Gorky Park and the area of the park for fallen statues.  These statues are from the Soviet era.  It's good they keep their history alive even though it was a dark period for them.

They talk about the "Soviet"time and they don't like it at all.  We heard stories from our guide about when she lived in the "Soviet" time as compared to now.  Standing in long lines for food and clothes and shoes.  Then getting to the front of the line and not having her size.  Having to grow gardens because there wasn't enough food.  Free housing but everyone just had a small apartment with a few rooms.  Everyone's career was picked out for them.  No incentives to try and be more and do more.

Monday Oct 28, 2013- Got up at 5:30am!  Took a metro to a train then to airport.  Long flight back 10 1/2 hours.  Didn't sleep much at all.  Landed in NY then had to take 2 more planes to Dallas! By the time we got home we had been up and travelling for 24 hours!  Whew!

Planes, taxis, buses, metros, cars, and lots and lots of walking!!  But it was so worth it!  I'm so thankful for the opportunity to travel and see other cultures.  People are the same everywhere. Different in some ways but a lot the same.

Take every opportunity you have to enjoy this life God has blessed us with!  A new adventure awaits with each new morning!


Monday, August 19, 2013

Complaining

It's too hot.
The a/c went out at the house.
No body talks to me.
They won't listen.
The a/c went out in the car.
The coffee's out.
The internet is down.
I hurt my toe.

Wah....wah...wah...wah..

I tend to complain a lot.  I've referred to myself as Eeyore at times.  My first reaction is usually No!  But I've been really focusing on not complaining these past weeks.  It's a verse that I taught my kids when they were little a  long ago.  Philippians 2:14 "Do everything without complaining and arguing,"  But I just recently noticed the second part of that verse... " so that no one can criticize you. Live clean, innocent lives as children of God, shining like bright lights in a world full of crooked and perverse people." 

I want to be a shining light in the world.

I'm not great at it yet.  I spent the better part of yesterday in a state blah.  But I am trying.

It is cooler this week.
The a/c guy came out quickly.
Some one cares.
I need to pray about that one.
Car was fixed.
I'll drink tea.
It's ok I have other things to do.
It'll be ok.

I am blessed.


Tuesday, July 9, 2013

Hooping!

I really need to blog more often!  I just noticed I haven't posted anything here since March!

I went to a new class last night and I'm so excited about it!  It's a hula hooping class!  I've always enjoyed hula hooping as a kid.  Well it turns out there's a new movement out there for adults!  It's called hooping!

It's a great exercise and fitness workout.  I was definitely sweating last night!  It's also a great avenue for people like me to get into exercise.  I say people like me because I was never a sports girl.  I didn't do sports in school.  I don't go running or do workout videos.  I don't do zumba.  I can't keep in sync with everyone!

This is just me and the hoop.  It's letting go in my own rhythm and dance.  It's not a competition.  Everyone can go and learn at their own pace.

I'm so excited to learn more moves and start taking my hoop with me to different places!  I love that I'm in my 40s and learning a whole new thing!  It's so exciting!

Stay tuned for more on this hooping adventure!

Monday, March 25, 2013

What I've been learning lately

I feel like the Lord has been showing me lately that He is faithful.  No matter the circumstance.  No matter how long we pray ...He is faithful.  I have had many unanswered prayers.  Many prayers that aren't answered the way I would have liked.  That doesn't change the fact that the Lord is faithful.  His love for us doesn't change.  He continues to uphold me with His mighty right hand. (Isaiah 41:10).

I went with Larry to Pennsylvania for a job 2 years ago.  It was a great time and I really enjoyed it.  I met some great people and knew the Lord brought me up there for a purpose.  But the Lord called me back 8 months ago.  I was thrilled to be back closer to my kids!  I knew this was a great opportunity and was very thankful for it!  So I came back and we prayed for Larry to find a job here soon.  I just knew that since the Lord brought me back to Texas that He would bring Larry back soon.  But we waited and we prayed.  We waited and prayed.  Finally, 8 months later.....Larry will be returning!  8 months doesn't seem that long to some.  I realize some people wait on God for years to answer their prayers.  I have waited for years for some things.  

The Lord is faithful regardless of how long we wait.  Our circumstances do not change the character of God.  He is faithful.  His Word is true.  I will trust in this. 

And I'll do the happy dance when my hubby returns!  C'mon...do it with me! :)

Psalm 89:8
Lord God of hosts, Who is mighty like You, O Lord? Your faithfulness also surrounds You.


Tuesday, December 25, 2012

Year in Review

The year in bullet points in no particular order:

  • Val worked for a week at Chick-fil-A
  • moved from Pittsburgh back to Texas
  • went to 2 family weddings!
  • Scott enjoyed working at a ranch in Wyoming
  • Val returned to working at Arlington Resale!
  • Larry started college classes online to finish his degree
  • Larry changed his middle name to SECEDE!
  • moved into one of our rent houses
  • Val & Becky went to Barcelona, Spain!
  • love our new home church
  • Renee returns to Austin after a time in Colorado
  • Sam finishes school and is searching for his calling in life
  • Val had 2 surgeries about a month apart!  Thankfully all is well now!
  • Sam broke his arm skiing 
  • Renee is living in an EcoVillage
  • Sam & Scott caught the biggest fish ever while visiting Renee & Kyle in Austin
  • Val & Larry celebrated their 23rd Wedding anniversary
  • Scott bought a Ford F350!
All in all it was a roller coaster year!  Lots of fun! The Lord is very good!

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!