Friday, March 6, 2020

Life is so very short

A friend from high school passed away today.  We went from elementary through high school together.  I just saw her at our 30 year high school reunion a few months ago. She was my age.  That's surreal. 

Over the last few years I've had friends that have passed away.  As I get older, it will be more frequent, I'm sure.  We've already lost my parents, my in-laws, my brother in law.  I lost my grandparents long ago.

Death is a part of life.  Life is so very short.  Except for those long days in school when that clock would not budge!

It's something we all know.  Life is short.  Yes, got it.  But we forget.  We get caught up in the mundane.  The tedious.  The drama.  The wastefulness.

Our lives go on after the memorial.  But theirs will forever be changed.  Her husband, her daughter, her family.

Stop and smell that rose.

Hug your friends and even your enemies.

Take time to dance.

Enjoy the sun.

Make a difference.

Smile.

Make someone else smile.

Take that vacation.  See that bucket list place.

Most importantly though is this.
Get your spiritual life in order.  There's only one way to Heaven-through Jesus Christ.
Romans 10:9 "if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved"
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Don't take a chance with your soul.

Our life here on earth is short but our soul lives on forever.

Love and hugs my friends.





Wednesday, February 19, 2020

Amsterdam!

I absolutely love traveling.  I love the planning, the going, the seeing.  Everything.

We just got back from a quick trip to Amsterdam and it was fabulous!

We flew from Dallas to London and then onto Amsterdam.  We landed in Amsterdam around 2 in the in afternoon.  I had printed directions on how to get from the airport to the hotel.  But somehow we got on the wrong train or something and ended up going the long way to the hotel.  There's trains, buses, metros and trams and I only researched metros, because that's what I'm used to riding in Europe.

Anyway, we were both really tired and Larry had suggested we stash our luggage in a locker at the train station because we had tickets to see the Anne Frank museum at 5:30.  These tickets I had to buy in advance because they sell out days in advance.  I really wanted to get to the hotel and change clothes, brush my teeth and refresh so I insisted we get to the hotel first.  Well, we ended up on the longest metro ride with about 17 stops! and our hotel was at the end!  ugh...  Well, we got there, freshened up and had a moment to collect ourselves. Then we got better directions to the Anne Frank house.  A bus!

So off we went.  We got there in time for our reservation. I showed them my printout.  They said we only had bought one ticket.  What!!  I thought I bought two!  Oh no!!  Well, I kinda lost it from sheer exhaustion.  But Larry was ok walking around and waiting for me to go.

It was so interesting to see the actual place that the Frank family and several others hid for almost 2 years.  The actual place! (not allowed any pictures inside- so this is all I got)


The next day, we had reservations to see the Corrie Ten Boom house in Harlaam.  It's about a 15 min train ride from Amsterdam.  Trains are easy breezy there!  Nice ride, beautiful countryside. Harlaam is a quaint little town.  

The house where Corrie Ten Boom's family hid the Jews during WW2 was so interesting!  We got to crawl inside the place where the hiding place was!  We heard all the stories of their bravery.  So interesting to see the perspective of this one from Anne Frank's house.  Both were hiding places, one was a more permanent place, one transitionary.  Corrie Ten Boom's house was bathed in prayer and scripture and Jesus.  No mention of any of that at Anne Frank's house.





The next day, we hit the ground running in Amsterdam.  We ate good food, took a canal cruise, enjoyed lots of coffee and tea.  We went to the Dutch Resistance museum and learned how the Dutch resisted the Nazis.  Some people resisted, some collaborated, some adapted. Really interesting interactive museum with lots of displays and things to read and listen to. 






The last day, we made our way by train to the town of Zaanse Schans (every town had at least 2 A's and a couple of J's, K's or Z's).  It was windy and rainy there but so cool to see the Windmills!  

As we were walking down the street, we noticed a church just starting their service so we went in!  It was such a unique experience!  An older lady came over and translated for us.  They were very welcoming!  The service had no set "program".  There were about 50 people and we all sat quietly.  When someone wanted to sing a song, they announced the page number and everyone sang!  No instruments or big production.  When someone wanted to pray, we all stood and prayed.  A Scripture come to someone's mind, they read it.  Communion was passed around.  We loved worshipping with other believers!  As we left, the lady that translated for us says "Until we meet again!"  Yes!  We will see her again!





Loved our time there!  Sad for vacations to end.  Now to catch up on my sleep!! Ha!!





Friday, January 31, 2020

20 Difficult things to do

Things that are difficult that they never tell you (in no particular order):

1. saying goodbye
2. learning new habits
3. being the bigger person
4. keeping your mouth closed/or not commenting
5. walking away
6. changing the saying on the letterboard
7. knowing when the avocado is ready to eat
8. when/how to help or not help
9. self care
10. getting the perfect weather to fly a kite
11. what to do when things don't go your way
12. striking a match from a matchbook
13. learning what truly matters
14. knowing when to let go and when to hang on
15. how much to be involved
16. unclogging the kitchen sink
17. hanging up a picture when the hanger is in the middle of the picture
18. saying I'm sorry
19. loving with no return
20. not buying stuff at Target







Friday, January 17, 2020

When things don't turn out like you thought they would

Life has so many twists and turns.  You are going along just fine, you think your life is on this certain trajectory and then boom... something changes.

And then there's the times that you expect something to turn out a certain way...and it just flat out doesn't.

Expectations can cause some major anxiety and a lot of disappointment.

I live in Eeyore world.  I always see the rainy cloud, the glass half empty blah blah blah.

But I'm married to Tigger.  Thank the Lord.

He can see the positive in almost everything.  Even the bleakest of the bleak, he can pull something positive out.

I remember many many moons ago, he came home unusually early from work and said "I have good news and bad news."  Which would you like first?  Well, me-I want the bad news first.  He said "I lost my job!"  Ok, how you gonna pull some good news out of that one??  Then he said, the good news is we get to go home for Christmas!  He turned a sad situation, into a happy, family time.

Rarely does life go the way you expect it to.  I generally get disappointed at the people around me, including myself.

But it's all in the perspective.

Is my expectation the "right" way.  Maybe it is, but maybe there are other ways.

Sometimes I just gotta go all Elsa and Let it Go! Let it Go!


Do you have a Tigger in your life?  Everyone needs one, or needs to be one for someone else! 

Life's tough.  There's gonna be disappointments.  People won't always be or do the things you'd like.  

I can only change myself.  I can only work on me.

And that's a lot of work!


Thursday, January 9, 2020

New Year's Goals

2020.
New year.  New decade.
Now's the time everyone starts making new goals and resolutions.
New beginnings, right?

I am a super goal oriented person.  I like accomplishing things.  I like getting things done.  So you'd think I would love new year's resolutions.  But I really don't. A year just seems like so long to keep something up!  I like smaller, more attainable goals.  Like daily goals.

I walk my 11,000 steps a day.  That's attainable.

I did a read through the Bible plan every year for years..and I'm going to start that back again.

I like small bites as goals.

A little bit every day can make a huge change in your future self.

You can't change others.  But you can change yourself.


I can't change other people's attitudes about me.  But I can change my attitude about myself.

I can't change other people's health habits.  But I can change my health habits.

I can't change how other people spend their time and energy.  But I can change mine.

We are given a short time on Earth.  

This is a new year.  New beginnings.





Friday, December 27, 2019

Looking back this past year

Well, 2019 is almost over.  I can't believe it's going to be 2020!  This past year has had it's good and bad, for sure.  Here's just a few of the happenings:

I lost my uncle and brother in law at the beginning of the year.

But on a happier note, we had 2 grandkids born this year!

We got to take a wonderful trip to Croatia and Slovenia!

I did an actual TRAPEZE swing!

I started doing trapeze yoga with my sister!

Larry and I celebrated 30 years of marital bliss! 

I finished my Invisalign!

We went to New Mexico to visit our son over Thanksgiving!

Lots of fun weekend trips to see our grandbabies, daughter and her family.

Celebrated 5 years at my job!

So many fun concerts, times with friends, games and good times!


















Here's to new beginnings!  His Mercies are new every morning!  My word for this past year was relationships.  Although some became distant, others drew closer.

I don't have a word yet for this next year but I would like to continue to work on relationships, and keep my heart and mind serving the King of Kings.  

On to 2020!!

Monday, December 9, 2019

Are you having a holly jolly Christmas?

It's the most wonderful time of the year..right??  Well why is everyone in such a grumpy mood?  Especially parents to their kids?

We were out yesterday doing Christmas-y things.  Seeing the pretty trees and lights and enjoying the season.  I went into a restroom and a mom was yelling at her little girl, then I went out and a mom was yelling at her kids to "not smile that way in the picture".  Geez.

Momma, I know you are frustrated.  You feel like you have to do all the things for the holidays and make it "special" for everyone.  And you are at the end of your rope.  But please don't take it out on your kids.  They have feelings too.

What do you want them to remember at the holidays?  You getting all the things done but being a complete grumpy pants about it?

Enjoy the season!  So what if the cookies don't get made, or the gifts bought or wrapped.

Stop and sing a song, do the Charlie Brown dance, play a game.

Make some positive memories with your kids.

When you start to feel anxious or frustrated.  Stop, breathe, smile, pray.  Let it go.

Christmas will come and go and what will be left.  The paper will all get thrown away, the cookies all eaten. And what will be left?

The memories.

Make some good ones.  Treat others (your kids) the way you'd like to be treated.

Love them. Kids are people too.

After all it is the most wonderful time of the year.